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Changes.

It's amazing to me how uptight we can get when something big happens.

I've decided to refrain from sharing on my Facebook the recent news pertaining to the LDS church, and it's stance on gay marriage with the addition of not allowing children in same-sex families to be baptized until they are of legal age and no longer living with their parents. Mostly because, quite frankly, I'm over it. I'm seeing it shared by both sides and both are shamelessly arguing why it's right or wrong.

I'll admit, at first I was sad. And it didn't make sense to me. But I've since evaluated other's views and retraced my own views and decided that it doesn't affect me much and I'm not going to let it get to me.

What I'm sad about now, is the way we are all treating each other because of these "changes". And seeing people I love dearly being bashed because of what they believe in, regardless of which side they are on. Why do we do this to each other?

Change is inevitable. Accept it, or don't, but do we need to hurt those whose beliefs run along a different path from our own? Is respect something so difficult to give? I mean, let's be adults here.

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